Why Women Find Older Men More Attractive

Older men have always been and will always be fascinating to women. That’s a fact which there’s no running away from, boys. Of course, we generalize here, and it is possible to find idiots in an older age group, too. Likewise, it is also possible to find wise old souls trapped in younger bodies.

You think that you do everything right when it comes to wooing women — you manage to look presentable, you crack witty one-liners (stolen from Oscar Wilde’s quotes), you criticize Honey Singh with just the right amount, and make the right noises when she speaks. 

But somehow, every girl you like ends up picking your senior instead of you. Pay heed, and you might be able to grasp where the problem lies.
Here are 12 reasons why women go for older men.

1. They Don’t Play Mind Games
Now this is not to say they are boring. They can be witty and interesting as hell. It’s just that their idea of fun does not include sitting in front of their phone, and not picking up their woman’s calls.

2. They Have Old-World Charm
Not many women fancy the idea of hearing a “Heyyy whaddupp babesss” on their first date. Whether it is pulling chairs, getting flowers, or simply giving a peck on the cheek, instead of shoving your tongue down her throat, nothing melts a woman’s heart more than keeping things old school.

3. They Know How To Pleasure A Woman In Bed
Hands down, older men are way better in bed. They know what women want, and know their bodies, as well as they know their beers. They have seen much variety, and definitely more than just porn. The delusions created by porn have been shattered long ago, and they are as real in bed as it can get.

4. They Are Smarter And Wiser
With all those years in their system, they have to got to be smarter than their younger counterparts who are busy guzzling pint after pint of beer. Let’s face it, boys, older men are wiser and more mature. People are silly when they are young. And women don’t like waiting for the boys to grow up.

5. They Don’t Try To Change A Woman
While everyone likes a stylish and pretty woman, older men don’t beat themselves too much over a girl’s nail polish or that single strand of white hair. They are more concerned with what lies inside, and are more accepting of a woman’s imperfections. Unlike younger boys, they don’t attempt to change the woman they fall in love with. They are not judgmental, period.

6. They Can Take Charge
Older men often hold an image of authority in a woman’s mind. Whether it’s deciding which place to eat in, or booking that holiday package, they know when to take charge, and do it without being overbearing. Now it is a truth universally acknowledged that women tend to date daddy figures. Somebody who reminds them of their fathers, and assures them (if only subconsciously) of a protected and safe environment. The unsaid promise that they will be there in times of trouble is enough to make a woman’s heart melt for them.

7. They Can Hold An Interesting Conversation
The complimentary trait that comes with more wisdom is the ability to hold a interesting conversation for more than 30 minutes. And the conversation doesn’t necessarily have to have sex in it for it to be interesting.

8. They Are Well Settled In Their Careers
The older men are well established in their careers; they are financially more stable, and the promise of a calmer life is something women can say “No” to. It might come across as shallow, but women looking to settle down often tend to go for the nice guy with a stable job and a house.

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